Educational resources by Reed Nolan • Not legal advice
A calm plan beats panic. Use short, respectful words and keep movements slow. Assume non-legal calls are recorded — share logistics only (who/when/where), not case facts.
Say once or twice, then pause:
“I choose to remain silent. I want a lawyer.”
“I don’t consent to any searches.”
What to do
Keep hands visible; move slowly and narrate movements if needed (“I’m reaching for my ID”).
Provide ID if required; avoid explanations or guesses under stress.
Write a private timeline (who/when/where) while details are fresh.
What to avoid
Arguing roadside law or consenting to “quick looks.”
Posting details to social media; screenshots travel far and fast.
Group-text play-by-plays — keep updates factual and brief.
Family checklist (first 24–48 hours)
Confirm facility name, booking number, arresting agency, and first court date.