Traffic Stops: Calm Phrases That De-escalate

Reed Nolan — Student Legal Guides

Educational content only — not legal advice.

Driver keeping both hands visible during a calm traffic stop.
Illustration — educational only (not legal advice).

Roadside debates rarely go well. Predictable, calm phrases work better than speeches about rights. Narrate movements (“I’m reaching for my license in my wallet”), keep hands visible, and speak slowly.

Two questions and two sentences cover most moments. Ask, “Am I free to leave?” If yes, depart calmly. If no, avoid filling in facts. Say: “I want to remain silent. I want a lawyer.”

If a search is requested: You may decline: “I don’t consent to any searches.” That answer is both lawful and practical, especially in shared spaces (car, dorm room, family vehicle).

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