Illustration — educational only (not legal advice).
Roadside debates rarely go well. Predictable, calm phrases work better than speeches about rights. Narrate movements (“I’m reaching for my license in my wallet”), keep hands visible, and speak slowly.
Two questions and two sentences cover most moments. Ask, “Am I free to leave?” If yes, depart calmly. If no, avoid filling in facts. Say: “I want to remain silent. I want a lawyer.”
If a search is requested: You may decline: “I don’t consent to any searches.” That answer is both lawful and practical, especially in shared spaces (car, dorm room, family vehicle).
Do’s
Keep both hands visible on the wheel; move slowly and narrate movements.
Carry ID and registration in a consistent, easy-to-reach spot.
After the stop, write down time, location, and what was said.
Common pitfalls
Explaining the whole story under stress — contradictions happen.
Arguing “roadside law.” Save disputes for later with counsel.
Posting details to social media; keep updates private and factual.