Educational content only — not legal advice.
Requesting a lawyer is a right. The key is to keep your words short and your tone steady. You’re not arguing law on the sidewalk; you’re making a clear request and then pausing.
Script: “I want to remain silent. I want a lawyer.”
When to say it
- If questioning becomes uncomfortable or confusing.
- Any time you’re detained or placed under arrest.
- When you feel pressure to “explain everything.” Silence prevents contradictions.
Tone & body language
- Hands visible, movements slow. Narrate if you need to reach for ID.
- Use a calm voice; say the script once or twice, then stop discussing facts.
- If asked to consent to a search, it’s okay to say, “I don’t consent to any searches.”
If questions continue
- Repeat the script briefly and return to silence. Don’t debate.
- Note time, location, and names or badge numbers if you can do so safely.
- If booking happens, treat calls as recorded: logistics only, not case facts.
For parents & guardians
- Coach teens on the exact wording; practice once at home.
- Keep a shared calendar for court dates and appointments.
- Use one family point person for updates; avoid social media commentary.