Educational content only — not legal advice.
Public posts can be misread, screenshotted, and reshared without context. Even a short message meant to “set the record straight” can lock you into statements you didn’t mean. If a situation involves detention, questioning, or booking, talk to a lawyer before posting anything beyond basic logistics.
Why waiting helps
- Clarity beats adrenaline. Details shift in the first 24 hours; a pause protects accuracy.
- Private first, public later. Direct messages to family and a lawyer travel farther than threads with strangers.
- Control the record. Once a post spreads, edits rarely catch up. Silence gives you time to choose precise words.
What to do instead
- Create a private timeline (who/when/where). Keep it factual and short.
- Use one family point person for group texts. Share logistics only (rides, appointments, medication).
- Ask friends and family to avoid public commentary until you’ve spoken with a lawyer.
- Store documents in one folder: names, booking or incident number, next court date.
Key line if contacted publicly: “Thanks for checking in. We’re keeping updates private while we talk with counsel.”
What to avoid
- Speculating about charges or motives.
- Posting screenshots/DMs that include other people without consent.
- “Explainer” threads that mix facts and opinions; save explanations for your lawyer.